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Old 09-04-2021, 06:27 AM
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Re: Wife caught heavy petting with man

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I feel got 4 levels
(1) the first is usually touching of breast and pussy. This one is the lowest level and can forgive. The lady may not be willing and the anal guy could have forced himself on ur wife when she is vulnerable (sad, depress or angry for some reason). If they stop after this, means wife still got control

(2) the 2nd is where guy manage to strip the woman and forced himself on her by rubbing his cock against the pussy and seducing the woman, trying to make her horny. This stage, the woman may not have control but may have give in to the guy at some stage (guy must strip the womanís pants). But still can forgive as woman may not be a willing party

(3) the 3rd is more extreme where they may have done 1 and 2 then moving to 3 to pleasure themselves. Both man and woman enjoying the process providing oral jobs to each other. At this stage, gone case liao (willing partners). They may or may not moved into the sex stage. Maybe guy got no condom or woman suddenly feels guilty. Quite difficult to forgive at this stage. (Couple relationship damage)

(4) the 4th is having sex. To progress to here, likely 1, 2 and 3 are done. The end liao. Wife may repeat many times because sex is given and she enjoys others to pleasure her. Likely divorce stage liao.

Just my 2 cent worth. Donít like say wife petting with guy then divorce. Some guys are ass. They purposely forced themselves on vulnerable women. If you fall into their trap, then wasted. You are delivering your wife to them.
I think mine went to your level 2. I cannot prove that it has reached 3 or 4. But then level 2 cannot be wife not willing. If not willing will not take off panties for him to rub pussy. Can push hand away if really not willing even if he tries to force.
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Old 09-04-2021, 11:07 PM
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Re: Wife caught heavy petting with man

This man someone u know? End all relationship with this guy.
Talk to your wife and trash things out.
Bro at your age hard to find another partner... think properly whether it is worth it to end it off
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Old 10-04-2021, 12:42 AM
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This man someone u know? End all relationship with this guy.
Talk to your wife and trash things out.
Bro at your age hard to find another partner... think properly whether it is worth it to end it off
I know the guy but not as a friend. It is better to be single than to be betrayed while working hard to support the family. might as well be alone then no need to pay for her expenses. She doesn't even appreciate what I do that is why she cheats on me. She assumes that all men out there do what I do and do more. She takes for granted what I give her and the family. I don't think such a partner is needed. I think my qualities are quite good. I can easily find another woman who appreciates me.
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Old 10-04-2021, 10:21 AM
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Bro at your age hard to find another partner... think properly whether it is worth it to end it off
This is not true, don't let this lie bind you. We can find and its just whether we want to or not and what types of partner we want.

To end or not should not be determine by our ability to find a partner. It should be based on whether you are happy with the current relationship.

If have a partner that gives you hell on earth daily, what's the point? Better to be alone, no partner oso never mind.
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Old 10-04-2021, 10:22 AM
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Re: Wife caught heavy petting with man

Of course, i understand its hard to be living through everyday with such haunting memories.

Because of what happened, i believe things will be at your advantage when you file for divorce, dont need to wait 3 years etc.

Just be calm when making this important decision
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Old 11-04-2021, 01:04 AM
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I think mine went to your level 2. I cannot prove that it has reached 3 or 4. But then level 2 cannot be wife not willing. If not willing will not take off panties for him to rub pussy. Can push hand away if really not willing even if he tries to force.
I wonít say wife is a willing party. For me, quite easy to do 1 and 2. Piece of cake. I feel still can forgive wife if you want. I feel the removing of panties have to be analysed carefully. If wife is wearing pants, then gone case. If wearing skirt, may not be her fault. Women wearing skirts (short ones) are super vulnerable. So easy to take off the panty. As long as never do 69 or FJ, still ok la
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Old 12-04-2021, 01:04 AM
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I wonít say wife is a willing party. For me, quite easy to do 1 and 2. Piece of cake. I feel still can forgive wife if you want. I feel the removing of panties have to be analysed carefully. If wife is wearing pants, then gone case. If wearing skirt, may not be her fault. Women wearing skirts (short ones) are super vulnerable. So easy to take off the panty. As long as never do 69 or FJ, still ok la
so when you successfully do level 2, you will usually proceed with level 3 and 4? and those are married women that you do on?
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Old 12-04-2021, 08:42 AM
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so when you successfully do level 2, you will usually proceed with level 3 and 4? and those are married women that you do on?
I donít do others wives. Mistresses, ML, single, divorce yes. Usually step 1 and 2 are super easy. 3 really depends on mood. 4 quite easy also depending on whether I want.

For 1, it is usually test test. Maybe can proceed to 2, maybe cannot. Some maybe not comfortable
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Old 18-04-2021, 01:10 PM
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Re: Wife caught heavy petting with man

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This man someone u know? End all relationship with this guy.
Talk to your wife and trash things out.
Bro at your age hard to find another partner... think properly whether it is worth it to end it off
I disagree with your last sentence. Only pple with low self esteem will think like that. Pple with self love will be a catch wherever they go!
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I disagree with your last sentence. Only pple with low self esteem will think like that. Pple with self love will be a catch wherever they go!
Yup. I said the same thing also.

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This is not true, don't let this lie bind you. We can find and its just whether we want to or not and what types of partner we want.

To end or not should not be determine by our ability to find a partner. It should be based on whether you are happy with the current relationship.

If have a partner that gives you hell on earth daily, what's the point? Better to be alone, no partner oso never mind.
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Re: Wife caught heavy petting with man

perhaps the key question is how much do you need her? love her? and can you truely let go of her?

if the answers to the question is you can't let go.

then you know you will accept and try to make things work
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perhaps the key question is how much do you need her? love her? and can you truely let go of her?

if the answers to the question is you can't let go.

then you know you will accept and try to make things work
For me, the bigger question is whether I can afford to divorce her or not, whether the cost of divorce will be bearable or not. If not, I would just sit and talk. Let her continue with her way but with newly set ground rules, e.g. I can also see other women as well, keep everything discreet, not bringing the other man into our house, etc. I may be oversimplifying things here but... that's all I can think of
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For me, the bigger question is whether I can afford to divorce her or not, whether the cost of divorce will be bearable or not. If not, I would just sit and talk. Let her continue with her way but with newly set ground rules, e.g. I can also see other women as well, keep everything discreet, not bringing the other man into our house, etc. I may be oversimplifying things here but... that's all I can think of
that's the next level

that's because you can live without her and you don't love her the same anymore

once you think you can do without her, then money or tolerating comes into the picture, or co-existing
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For me, the bigger question is whether I can afford to divorce her or not, whether the cost of divorce will be bearable or not. If not, I would just sit and talk. Let her continue with her way but with newly set ground rules, e.g. I can also see other women as well, keep everything discreet, not bringing the other man into our house, etc. I may be oversimplifying things here but... that's all I can think of
Yes you oversimplifying a lot things here...if cost of divorce is of such importance you should seek legal advice the moment divorce...doing what you posted here...you are going to hurt yourself bad...
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Re: Wife caught heavy petting with man

Im Glad you gotten a divorce .
Your ex is in her mid 40's ... going to expire very soon .
you deserve better , get yourself a chick thats early 30's .
body , skin etc all better .

a second chance at living a better life if i may call it .

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